This post is part of a themed series inspired by theCameraShy challenge. The back story is here.
Week #4: Comfort
Our second week in Malawi, the rains started more regularly. And with it, came a more sobering perspective of Malawian life. We had seen dilapidated rural houses and agonizing poverty, but these take on a whole new magnitude in the rain. Overnight, rickety brick houses turn dangerous and families live a more intense reality than they were living just a day before.
Yet everywhere we went, joyful children stood with their feet in the freezing mud, their toes shrivelled like tiny sausages, as if it was the most normal thing in the world.
Because it was.
I sat with one family, whose biggest wish was blankets. And I looked down at my new high-tech trail shoes and fleece-lined waterproof jacket, the backpack on my back filled with bottled water and granola bars. And I was pummelled by the irony.
Everywhere we went, I was struck by the comfort of my life in Canada. I sleep not only off the ground, but in a bed with a duvet and pillows. I put on clean clothes and shoes every morning and I have a selection to choose from. I don’t have to light a fire or keep one going, I turn on my crock pot and it simmers safely all day, giving my family a healthy meal. And I don’t have to concern myself with frivolities like keeping warm – my thermostat takes care of that for me. I blend an assortment of fruit together for a nutritious smoothie breakfast from my cupboard without picking a single piece. I get my milk from a carton in the fridge without having to milk any animal for the privilege of drinking it. I don’t have to pump water or carry it long distances, I walk to almost any room in my house and turn a tap. And that water doesn’t look odd or smell foul or make my kids sick. I power lights without a second thought, and when it rains I don’t have to strategize to keep my family warm enough. We ‘rough it’ camping with more luxury than Africans, just for the fun of it.
But because I don’t have to think about these things, I think about them often. In Canada, we have all the necessities of life covered and most of our other desires as well. So we see comforts here as the things that make our world extra cozy: a steaming latte, a warm bubble bath, a good book. We live in a world of such intense comfort every single day, yet it has become so mundane and commonplace, that we don’t often see it for the miracle that it really is.


I try to remind myself of these differences all the time – I feel that it keeps myself ‘in check’ for ever becoming ungrateful. Thanks for these posts
I’m lovin’ these stories Christy. I know your life was changed by Africa, but know that your beautifully written thoughts and convictions are changing the hearts and minds of those who read as well. Keep writing!
Hi Christy- Thank you for the wakeup reminder. SA is somewhat the same for the people we are trying to help. As you know, we will be going back to the states in May and I was just commenting to my husband, I would be glad to get decent TV. This is a reminder to all of us that although we may have been created equal, we don’t all live the same lifestyle. It is a wonderfully moving tribute to your heart as a missionary to Africa.
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